Advice for kingdom Brothers

I choose not to believe that there are some Brothers out there who still sticks to a kind of faulty measurement for their future wife.

Here's one of those faulty mindsets. "If she is a good wife ,she will be able to manage N500 for soup"

I tag this above mindset as a "Poverty mindset".

With all the good measures , you choose the "managing N500" as a core yard stick to measure a woman?

It's not a test ,it's a sign of foolishness to measure the managing skills of a lady with ridiculous amounts.

Mr manager , just take a sit and read with your heart wide open.

Do you know why i tagged it "A Poverty mindset"?

Because only a poor man will struggle to give his wife money for soup.

Why would you have the mindset of entering marriage and testing her with such nonsense? 

So you want to dwell in a level where ordinary money for food is the problem for the family and you tag it as a measure to see the true colour of the woman?

That's pure foolishness. Some Nollywood movies has wiped away wisdom from some Brothers head.

This an alarm to you , change that useless mindset.

Giving a lady N500 for soup and expecting a tangible result from that is wickedness. 

Like i said i struggle to believe we have Brothers with this mindset but just in case we have one or two left , please let them read this.

Get serious with yourself and get to a point where twenty thousand for just soup will not affect you instead of using one useless mindset as an excuse for your mediocrity.

No responsible lady should move with that kind of man , don't be emotional about it ,give a big no from the start if such test is given.

I hope you saw sense in this?.

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